Hot Takes in the Wedding Industry

Trends, Traditions, and What’s Changing

After years in the wedding industry, we've seen it all—the timeless traditions, the new trends, and the creative ways couples make their day uniquely theirs. While we love a heartfelt speech and a classic cake cutting, we also love seeing couples shake things up with fresh ideas. From extended cocktail hours to interactive guest experiences, we’re here for the fun twists that make a wedding day unforgettable. So, let’s dive into some lighthearted hot takes on wedding traditions—no rules, just inspiration for making your big day exactly what you want it to be!

Here’s a breakdown of our fun wedding hot takes—because we love seeing couples make their day their own!

No Speeches

We love a heartfelt toast, but not every couple wants to pause the party for long speeches. Instead, consider private toasts at the rehearsal dinner or informal words of love shared throughout the night. This keeps the celebration flowing without the pressure of a formal speech lineup.

No Cake Cutting

While cake-cutting is a sweet tradition, some couples are skipping it in favor of unique dessert moments—think a gelato cart, mini pies, or even a late-night churro bar. It’s all about making dessert feel fun and personalized rather than sticking to tradition just because.

More Interactive Cocktail Hour Experiences

Cocktail hour is the perfect time to set the tone for the rest of the night. We love seeing couples incorporate interactive elements—like build-your-own spritz stations, oyster shuckers, live chefs preparing small bites, or even tarot card readings. The more engaging, the better!

Longer Cocktail Hour

Who says cocktail hour has to be just an hour? Stretching it out allows for more mingling, relaxed vibes, and a chance for guests to enjoy the setting before heading into dinner. Whether it’s with extra lounge seating, live music, or extended food and drink offerings, a longer cocktail hour can make the evening feel more dynamic and immersive.

At the end of the day, your wedding should be a reflection of you. Whether you’re all for shaking up traditions or want to keep things classic, what matters most is that your celebration feels personal, meaningful, and fun. We love seeing couples get creative and make their day their own—so if any of these hot takes resonate with you, we say go for it! And if you need a team to bring your vision to life, we’d love to help. Let’s start planning your dream wedding together!